|| Love and Attitude ||

|| Love and Attitude ||

As we read, our last blog was about how positivity is contagious. In our recent blog, Mr. Gaurang Das Prabhu (Vrindavan) have joined hands with us and wrote about how...  He asks what is love? Different people give definitions of their interest. Love can happen with faces as well as with behavior. Now it depends on you what is important to you because someone's face might be the first introduction to an acquaintance, but his/her behavior is a priority. The face can fade after a moment of time, but nature will remain constant. You can only be comfortable with someone if he/she has a beautiful heart instead of a face. 


What attracts the person the most is his love and behavior. Because his love and behavior is the real power that draws any man or person to you. Because of which you are famous amongst everyone. And only these qualities will keep you connected with everyone. Love, itself is very powerful. The one who loves you will become yours without even asking for the same. And honestly, when you have to ask someone then probably it's not even loved!  Love in a pure emotion where the person becomes yours without even asking for the same. 


In a relationship, holiness only takes place until there is no deceit.  When there is any sort of mean involved, the relationship loses its seclusion. It is very difficult to maintain it's boundaries. Your love and behavior, says it all. Once purity is involved it gets deepen day and day and it gives the light to your scent.


Creating and carrying relationships are two different things. Relationships can be made with anyone, but the real thing is to maintain and carry that and it is necessary to keep and fill it with love. In any relationship, your behavior matters the most, because it shows reflections of your intent that how much you want to carry a relationship. At that time it also judges till what you can carry relationships. It is not necessary that a relationship cannot be maintained. There are many people who carry a full life relationship with their loving behavior because they have the passion to carry a relationship.


Only blood relations are not just true relations. There are many other relations which we built, in which there is love, trust and we believe that they will never betray us. If we have cooperation, happiness, respect in any relation, that person will not be stranger to us and will be very dearer to us. Many times, we do not get all these feelings in our blood relations at that time those blood relations look us like strangers. But when all of these feelings and love qualities we receive in any other relations, that made the best relation.


Love and behavior are two such invaluable things that can increase and decrease the value of any person. But we must always increase value and should not do anything which decreases the bond. However, do not reflect your love more to your beloved ones, but always stand with them. Keep your behavior as close to that point as when you are next to the person it increases the value and does not decline it. Keep your behavior like a zero (0) so when you are with someone you increase their value.


We can never assume what will happen next. We are always been tested. Even the best of the best relations will have to face difficulties. And probably that's the time we know the reality how much an opposite person is loyal to us. We have to initiate the relationship but never allow your faith to diminish your faith towards whatever relationship you maintain with love and behavior. 


Because God takes the initiation of those on whom his grace is visible. Just like in Mahabharata, Krishna gave some useful lessons to Arjuna about Geeta before the fight to make sure all his fear has vanished. He still took his exams to make sure the lesson isn't wasted.  So no matter what the time is, tomorrow will be successful. All we have to do is give pure love and keep our behavior filled with positive energy.


"Giving love to someone is the greatest benefit,
And getting love is the greatest honor !!"


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Comments

  1. Unknown8 August 2020 at 09:18

    Love only can bring change which no other thing can change.

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  2. Sunil O. Khandelwal28 November 2020 at 04:30

    In this world of materialism, all beings are looking for a true love! Love which is beyond any reason, expectation or purpose.
    It is true that only love can heal any injury, physical or inner. Hate for hate will generate more disturbance. Where as love in response to any hate would ultimately generate love and peace.
    Thanks for writing another positive article! God Bless!!

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