|| Parents Possibilities and Positivity ||

To be Parents is the best treasure of life and parenthood is the best memories to cherish. You want to be a parent so decide to be a parent. Being a parent is the best gift you give to yourself. Your journey starts with a child as you created another human that you chose for your whole life as you are putting somebody else before yourself. On this earth, you create one human which carries your shadow. Your children resemble your thoughts, personality, and behavior. Being a parent is life's biggest satisfactory feeling. Your warmth, your security towards your child reflects in your child's development. 

For instance, how seeds of plants with enough water and soil become a beautiful plant. In the same way, you give birth to your child, feed and nourish your child with good thoughts and good nutrition which makes your child a beautiful soul. Being a parent with positivity creates a lot of possibilities for you and your own child. You create the best path of your life with the footsteps of your child. The best path is to be a parent who gives comfort and warmth when the child is small. Parents become a friend when the child becomes an adult. Parents also become companions and share the responsibility of the family with the child.

When we meet deaf children's parents and we see their difficulties, how they overcome their challenges, and see that their child overcome their disability...I and my husband really feel that they are efficient parents as we who have normal kids we don't pay so much attention to the development of children how they do it. Those parents who have deaf kids and have both parents who put equal efforts in educating the child at home with school work those kids show the best results...We think we all who have normal kids should implement this model in today's fast pace world where both parents should share equal responsibilities as well as put their best together in the growth of the child as even both parents have different ways to teach their own child. The mother may be good at giving the best nourishment to the child and the father will be good at giving good thoughts and strength to the child.

Our Krishna had two parents Devki and Vasudev who gave birth to him but they are those parents who sacrificed their parenthood for the safety of their own child. Nand Baba and Yashodha as parents did their best to take care of their own child. Though both parents knew that Krishna was God but both the parents fulfilled their responsibilities and taught Krishna to fight and fulfill his responsibilities towards his own parents and family and society. They did allow Krishna to do mischief and also scolded when it was needed. They helped him to spread love and also allowed to do adventure as well as taught to fight against Adharma. Krishna also fulfilled all the responsibilities of a child.

A child comes on this earth receives the first food of his life through his or her mother's breast, so first love, comfort, and warmth come from his or her mother. A child doesn't start talking immediately. A child takes around 9 to 10 months to start speaking till then the child learns to hear understand and then learn to express and that learning totally comes from the parent. If parents give the best stimulation to the child, the child can learn 20 languages and can learn thirty million words in the first five years of life and that is only possible with the parent's efforts. It is said in our communication, we learn 20 % of our education and 80 % from feeling and that child learns from his or her parents. So we need to give the best efforts in the first five years of our child. The child's learning process of learning words comes from how you teach the child intention of learning, how you give the choice of words, how much compassion you show to teach them, and how you teach empathy to the child. Teach to put words with respect in the child from childhood to make it your and his or her future respectful.

For creating the best positivity and possibility for your own child we need to teach them interpersonal and intrapersonal skills with their education. We should teach them to do their own things, allow them to think. A simple thing, a child learns to eat on its own teaches them to divide food into parts put rice, dal, and vegetable and put it in the mouth with hands. This requires eye-hand motor coordination which helps a child to think about those activities one after another as well as helps in reading and writing. Today's parents are feeding the child, pampers them but they don't realize that it makes the child's thinking process slow. They should learn to do their own self-care from childhood. It starts with toilet training, eating, listening, speaking, reading, writing, and verbal communication. We need to teach spirituality with life purpose and learning to have self-esteem. Learn to play in a good environment by taking care of health. We need to teach for good nutrition with exercise, so there will be less stress and anxiety in life. We need to teach work with finances with managing relationships.

Parenthood is the best memories of life. One must cherish with best when kids are with you. My parents always made us travel all around so that we learn the world around us with our education. My parents always used to take out time to make us study and travel on vacation so we can spend quality time with each other. The most beautiful thing in life is not materialistic things. They are kids with places, memories, and pictures. They are feelings, moments tight hugs, smiles, and laughter on your child's face. I remember traveling to Salzburg in Europe, I took this picture with my both daughters this is going to be one of the best memories of my life as a mother which my husband clicked on in his camera.

We as parents, think that the best possible and positive which you can teach your kids is not to worry and be happy. When a child is small and has a fall how we teach "beta don't worry we will help you, you will recover soon and we will help you to heal", we think or no?? If these statements remain throughout the life between children and parents, life will be so beautiful. 

Today it's our younger daughter's birthday and both our daughters are born in August and I along with my husband dedicate this blog to all the parents who have beautiful kids like us and we wish them to have the best parenthood in their life. Just be happy and enjoy every moment you spend with your kids. God is great that he has given us an opportunity to be parents.

|| Parents can become the best role models for the child. ||