Don't go through life, Grow through the life

  || Don't go through life, 

Grow through the life ||

What a statement: "Don't go through life, grow through life." It is written in my favourite movie song "ye ishq kya he, beithe bithaye zannat dikhaye". That line says you get the ultimate heaven-like place in someone's heart in your real life. That means you get to be with someone you love the most, you get the best job you wish for, you get the best child you wish for, you get to travel to the best place you wish for, you get to meet a person to talk to or you want to meet. Those are unimaginable moments that add so much energy to your existence. Your growth is multiplied many times over by such moments in your life. These are the times when you want to shout loudly and get the sound of your voice echoing off like "YES! Got it." It's comparable to finishing a marathon, hiking or mountain-climbing to the highest peaks, receiving an award in your field of work, or even witnessing a child's innocent smile as they overcome a disability using their own unique abilities. It's an incredible feeling. I was just wondering how our lives would be if we experienced only such beautiful moments at every instant of existence. Life will be entirely positive, moving in a positive path, and only spreading smiles and optimism, as opposed to dwelling excessively about the negative or unpleasant aspects of life.

I can only think of the love between Lord Krishna and Radha right now, even though it was impossible. They were aware that they couldn't be together because they faced so many challenges in life, but their degree of personal development was still very high. No one has yet been able to match that life to this living human life. Despite the fact that they were gods, they made sacrifices to show humankind how to progress through life. Radha was a devotee of the sun, the king of the stars. She used to pray and offer water (jala) to Lord Surya every morning in the direction of the east, because, Lord, the Sun rises from the east side. For a while, Lord Krishna went forth to fight the devils. Gopis, friends of Radha, noticed that she was nowadays offering that cold water in the west direction. They questioned her inquisitively, "If the sun is in the east, why are you offering morning Jala in the west?" She said that Lord Krishna had left and was travelling west. He might be exhausted from making so many efforts, but if I apply cold water jala to his leg, his tiredness will lessen. Even though it was simply a feeling, it helped them become more and more in love. Lord Krishna and Radha are wonderful souls with much to teach us. In the modern world, what do we do? We must possess something, fulfil our obligations, and make a sacrifice out of love.

Our human nature has evolved from an ancient emotional philosophy to a scientific and practical philosophy, but mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarrels, generational differences between parents and children, rituals associated with our dharma and religions, money laundering, and money fights continue. Despite these hurdles and the resulting mental and physical health issues, we continue to refuse to advance along that route in the current day. If we don't get something in life that we want, we give up rather than fighting, which is more scientifically growing as wider exposure and preserving wilder thinking. Recently, I've heard of a lot of people giving up on their lives despite having many wishes realized, especially celebrities who can't control their tiny emotional demands. Our younger generation, in particular, needs to pay attention and consider what they need and what is causing their thinking to become much smaller. Before making such decisions, I believe individuals who are contemplating giving up should consider the battles that people with disabilities are waging to preserve their own lives. They actually develop throughout life as opposed to simply passing through it.

After entering this field, working with deaf children, visiting foreign countries, I learnt what can be done to be a ray of hope for these youngsters. This thought process has only resulted in exponential growth for me. Without the motivation of these adorable little children, receiving the humanitarian award at the world forum, participating in the international forum, and leading the charge to bring about change would not have been possible. 

Recently, some of the hearing-impaired students from a school supported by the Josh Foundation gave a very beautiful performance at an event where many prominent people were present. When we later revealed their hearing impairment from birth, the audience gave them a standing ovation. For me, those moments and those feelings are difficult to put into words. I felt as though I had done something to help them, give them a better path than what they were on, and I was fortunate to be a part of their lovely existence.

The best part of that event was that it was an event called DHUN , whose melody you get lost in or you get lost in thinking about someone. These kids were from Hindi Mand Marathi medium special school and they performed with their hearing (without the help of anyone doing gestures) on a Gujarati song. They were really lost in the song with their own best expressions, with their own potential to do their best. I made people understand that they are the ones who understand the real meaning of DHUN. Though they go through life, they are full of positive energy, but they only know how to grow best in their own life. Isn't it? Just think about it. So many ritual books and books of vast wisdom are as good as their live motivation. I will repeat, the world will aspire to the beauty of kindness if we make special-needs children equally included in our society.

We are two sisters and one brother. We were raised in a educated working family, so we have enough money to grow and live a happy life. We had ups and downs like any other family, but the best part was that we were all together to get through it. Our parents taught us that life is precious and that we must utilise it wisely. Have faith in yourself and in God. God understands you are given challenging tasks in order for you to pass them and have a better grasp of life. Your vision should be clear. Help yourself, but don't forget to help others who are in need as well. Be honest and humble in all you do, whether it's your work or your attitude toward others. Have discipline, passion, and focus on your work. Never forget those who helped you in a time of need; they are your best friends. Be content with what you have. Every day, strive to be a better person. Today's youth should learn from their parents' life experiences. Hold your parents' hands and learn to navigate life; they are the best teachers to help us grow.

Friends, life is like a train journey. Every station has some interesting things to see, appreciate, and experience. It is highly likely that you will arrive at your goal with those pleasant moments. If you view your life as an excursion trip, you will enjoy it more because each station will provide you with fresh feelings and sensations. Your positive attitude in life will only help you grow and achieve success. So, this is my experience; how about yours?