|| True love is to get lost in each other ||

|| True love is to get lost in each other || 

Have we lost what genuine love is in our robotic and scientific journey through life? Love has a depth of significance that is beyond our understanding. According to Lord Krishna, love begins with compassion. Love is when you declare that your beloved will have all of life's pleasures, with the blessings of god. Love says I will be proud of the wonderful people in my life, and the desire of life says they will be proud of me. Love allows individuals to develop, whereas desire does not. According to Lord Krishna, the only true dharma is love. But as a result of self-desire and our selfish culture, we have lost sight of the true meaning of love. Lord Krishna has clearly said in the Bhagwat Geeta that in order to develop dharma in this Kaliyuga, we must all create and understand the meaning of genuine love and experience it among us, whether in the form of kindness, moral support, or warmth. The love of being lost in one another does not only refer to sexual relationships or the melting of two different genders but also to respect for and understanding for each other, which may be any individual.

Radha Krishna is the universe's one and only role model for real love. When asked about genuine love, Radha replied, "You may love through a physical relationship or a mental connection between two people, but for me, love is eternal." There is a soul connection between two people that cannot be broken. The other sign of genuine love is Mira, who was Krishna's disciple. She was also asked about true love, and she answered, "I am because of Krishna." I sense Krishna's blessings every time I witness compassion around me. True love cannot be measured or compared; it must be felt. It just occurs, whether it is with God, a mother for her child, or parents for their children, or for yourself, your education, your work, and profession, your spouse, your family, your community, or your own nation, as soldiers have in their hearts. Whatever we do, we must feel it from the heart to love sincerely. This is taught by our deity, goddesses, gurus, and the leaders of our country's independence warriors. 

When you go around our country on pilgrimage, you will notice that many devotees think that Lord Krishna exists among us. When you visit places like Vrindavan, Dwarika, Gokul, or Mathura, even outsiders realize Lord Krishna is present in everyone's breath. This is about not just devotees' love for Lord Krishna but also Lord Krishna's love for his devotees. Faith in God ties you to God, which is sincere love for God. True motherly love has many challenges, like those during pregnancy, and makes several attempts to observe changes in her mind and body, but she just waits to deliver a soul from herself into the universe. Throughout our lives, a mother does everything she can to ensure her child's happiness, and she never forgets that her child is the best for her. I have seen that my mom has supported me during the ups and downs of my life. For all of us to grow, our parents have been a pillar of support. The sentiment is that our parents are the most priceless treasure in our lives.

We've heard of people getting lost in their devotion to God and getting lost in the development of a child as parents, but we've never heard of anyone getting lost in their own body, mind, and soul. I believe that has to be learned from our special kids. They make us think that we normal people are busy doing things that other people want us to do, and in doing so, we don't notice our strengths and weaknesses. We forget what we are good at and what we should avoid doing in our lives. Shakespeare believed that in order to have true love for yourself and live a good and happy life, you must first know yourself, your abilities, and what you are good at; otherwise, you will not know what to avoid. The special kids whom I meet every day know how they need to concentrate on positivity in life and how to avoid negativity.

The other day, I was talking to one of the deaf kids who visited our clinic. He was entering puberty, and his parents were not yet happy with his progress. Due to the circumstances, I thought of calling one of my kids, who studies at a nearby college and whose home is also close by, to speak with that child. So I just called her and said, "Can you come down to meet me? I want you to meet one child who needs guidance and inspiration from you." She came immediately, within 10 minutes, to my clinic. She spoke so beautifully to both that child and her parents. She talked about her challenges and how to overcome them by making little changes and paying attention to what she does in life. I was so happy to see confidence on her face, but more than that, I thank her for coming promptly. She said, "You called me, and I felt I could make a change, so I left my work halfway and came." I was astonished! What a dedication and commitment to her own growth and to helping others—can we normally do this in our fast-paced lives?

It is said that true love is blessings, its feelings, its friendship, its respect, its care, its happiness, its patience, its prayers, its ultimate destination, its eternity, and above all, it is to consider happiness between two individuals, which we have felt and seen in the true love of Radha Krishna. When people feel or say that there is no relation between two people, whether they are two brothers or sisters, spouses, or family members, it means there is no love between them because in real, true love, there are no expectations, and there is no feeling of instability or loss of peace. True love is responsibility; you can't leave each other at any cost; you're so engrossed in each other that you don't have time to learn about each other's flaws; you only notice each other's strengths.

True love is full of feelings; it just flows and remains alive in the hearts of people. If we feel love is incomplete, it means we are waiting for someone to complete our love. We don't believe that love can be complete, but if we make efforts to love God, our parents, our spouse, our friends, our work, our company, our community, or our country, we will begin to feel it. It's our responsibility as individuals. Loss of love in life results in anger, fear, depression, dissatisfaction, loss of peace, and a slew of other health issues that lead to mental health problems. Today's major issue in this universe is insecurity, and that is only happening because people are not ready to understand the true meaning of love. I read in some books that until you have expectations in life from others, you cannot connect to God. If God is innocent and spreads love, then his devotees also need to be the same.

Time and tide wait for no one. God has given us only one life in this universe. love life. Love to get lost in life. Someone has rightly said, "You dance as your feet vibrate." It is just like, you know, you learn engineering as a career when you are good at math and physics. So it's not difficult to figure out what you're good at and who you can be good with. During school, you go through many subjects and examinations, and you learn which subjects you are good at and which you find challenging. If you are a conscientious student, you will work harder and try to improve your grades, and you will also know which subject you need to choose. It's just that extra effort is required to understand getting lost in love.