Why the Universe gave us two Ears and one mouth....

 

Why the Universe gave us two Ears and one mouth...

We often wonder why nature designed us the way it did. One head, two eyes, two hands, all seems symmetrical. But when it comes to communication, the universe gave us two ears and only one mouth. It may appear like a simple design, but it holds a deep spiritual message to listen more and speak less. Not just with attention, but with understanding.

As an audiologist, I have seen how listening, both physically and emotionally can transform lives. Recently, I received a touching message from a grateful family. A young man, earlier unable to speak confidently over the phone due to hearing challenges, called home for the first time. His voice was clear, and his tone was confident. His mother wept with joy. It wasn’t just a phone call, it was a breakthrough of hope. That moment reminded me again why listening is not just a clinical need but a soulful act.

In life, one ear will hear the negative, the harsh words, the fear, and the criticism. But the second ear must be tuned to the positive, the kindness, the appreciation, the gratitude. Nature gave us two ears not just for stereo hearing but for balance. If we only absorb negativity, we become heavy-hearted. But if we balance it with hope, faith, and love, we become emotionally grounded. What we speak eventually reflects what we understand from what we hear. And when we are aware of both sides, the pain and positivity we become more compassionate in our responses.

The Bhagavad Gita, too, teaches us the power of mindful listening. Lord Krishna says to Arjuna, “Shraddhavan labhate jnanam” — meaning, "One who listens with faith and devotion gains true wisdom." Listening is not passive; it’s a conscious act of shraddha (faith). This verse reminds us that wisdom does not come from simply hearing words, but from listening with full attention, with discipline, and with reverence. Arjuna was surrounded by confusion, noise, and inner conflict but when Arjuna truly listened, clarity replaced confusion. That’s the kind of deep listening we must practice not just to others, but also to our inner voice.

When I look at the children and patients we work with, I realize their strength comes not only from devices or therapy but from the power of being heard and understood. Many of them speak few words, but their eyes and gestures communicate volumes. And when someone genuinely listens, it gives them courage to express themselves more freely. This is the real victory of not just hearing sounds, but feeling heard. It gives dignity. It builds confidence. It reminds every child that their voice matters, whether spoken or felt.

We must also be careful with our one mouth. Words are powerful. Once spoken, they cannot be taken back. That’s why nature gave us just one mouth, to speak with care, speak with kindness, and speak only when necessary. Our words should heal, not hurt. And when they come from a place of understanding, they can lift someone's spirit in unimaginable ways. What we say has the power to build bridges or create distances. So before we speak, let us ask: Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind?

Positivity isn’t about denying what’s wrong; it’s about choosing what we amplify. Every day, we are exposed to noise, be it from the world, from others, and from within ourselves. But we can choose what to filter in and what to let go. When we listen wisely and speak mindfully, we create harmony not just in conversations, but in relationships, families, and within ourselves. The joy of being human lies not in reacting to every sound, but in consciously responding with understanding and grace.

So, the next time you feel overwhelmed by what you hear or say, pause for a moment and remember, you have two ears and one mouth. Use them in that ratio. Hear more, judge less. Understand deeper, speak softer. Because sometimes, the biggest healing begins with a quiet ear and a kind word. And often, it’s in silence that the loudest truths are revealed. Let us honor the gift of listening and the power of thoughtful speech for doing so, we not only uplift others but elevate our own soul.