|| Life is all about Balance ||

|| Life is all about Balance ||

Everything in life indeed has to have balance. The sun's brightness balances with the moon's darkness for the earth. As the day and night balance life on the earth. The earth is divided into two hemispheres, which aids in the balance of day and night and, ultimately, life on earth. When we travel from one continent to another, time changes, but we still travel and adjust to that timeline. 
It takes time (we suffer from jet lag), but we adjust and try to balance our physical and mental strength. Different weathers are created by our almighty so that the earth's ecosystem is balanced out. We have subjects like maths, science, history, geography, language, art, etc., so that everyone has a variety of subjects to balance out their cognitive thinking. I was wondering about the importance of antonyms in a language. They help a language to balance out. Talking about the emotions and feelings, the pain of sadness and the joy of laughter become necessary to be kept in balance. The emotions of anger and calmness also give balance in life. In our country, even festivals are specially designed to balance work and pressure. Just think, in and around everywhere, there is balance managed by our great almighty. God says that if you do bad karma or sinful things, I will observe you and make a balance for you. As God has created males and females to balance the human race on the earth. Yes, life is all about balance. 

 
At the beginning of the Shree Bagwat book, I learned that one of the shlokas, "mangalcharan," can be narrated as being for receiving God's guidance, blessings, and namaskar (which means bowing down to God). It states that in order to pray to God, one must be pure of heart, which also makes one's speech beautiful and facilitates one's ability to prostrate oneself before God with one's own body and soul. Wow! A harmony of ideas in a little shloka narration. The gopis of Vraj had these shlokas' ideas deeply ingrained in their minds. Therefore, in order to balance their emotions and feelings, God took various avatars and decided to be with all the gopis in order to make them feel needed and cared for. The Bhagavad Gita also mentions that when the gopis were exhausted while performing maharas, the Almighty would touch them gently and respectfully, and they would feel refreshed once more. The idea of a gentle touch or even just being there for someone has just been forgotten in this fast-paced world. Imagine how many attributes our lovely gods possess. If we just start incorporating even one of them into our daily lives, everything would change. Soon, mental health will be in balance.


I learned from reading an interview with a female entrepreneur that she had just given birth when she made the decision to launch her own startup and consulting business. She said, "I had to take care of two new-borns; my kid and my startup," which I liked. She was prepared to balance both while overcoming all of life's obstacles. She stated that if you have a fixed mindset and try to do everything at once or think about all the consequences, it feels like you have a huge burden, whereas if you are ready to balance and have a growth mindset, you do things one at a time, and the things are more chewable and digestible, and you learn to just go with the flow and do what is required, and you learn to move on. You must mentally prepare yourself to survive not only good days but also sad and monotonous ones. She stated that being aware of my vulnerabilities was crucial in increasing my strength and that if I had one day of one hour of challenging, I used to assume I had 23 more hours of the day to manage. This is the cognitive process that we all require today.



So many parents who work and have children are unable to manage or balance both aspects. They claim we work, but we can't manage children, and they spend half their time comparing their children to other children rather than managing their own. They become exhausted by their work and their emotions, and they are unable to concentrate on managing their children's emotions. Once the balance is broken, it is never restored. I've always been concerned about my daughter's development. My older daughter has a friend her age in our building. Now the child's mother was abusing her at home, and her buddy was crying uncontrollably. So she came home and asked her mother, "Why don't you beat us?" I instantly responded that, while I work and become exhausted, I have my beautiful children who understand me and make me feel so relaxed that I could never consider beating them. These loving comments can provide so much wonderful energy for our children. Don't you think so?


Balance must be learnt and taught to children by their parents beginning in childhood. Nowadays, the majority of parents have one or two children. Those mothers who are at home and not working focus their entire attention on their children, feeding, writing, reading, and managing everything, and then suddenly expect their children to be independent. Those parents who work also do everything for their children, and they have limited time, so they make sure that whatever time they have, the child gets everything, and most of the children use electronic devices given to them by their parents to keep themselves occupied, and then parents complain that their child is not concentrating on education, and even today's children are smart; they know how to fool or get work done from their parents. I often urge parents that they must strike a balance with their children. I used to work with my children as they grew. Many times, children would phone me and have temper tantrums. I used to prepare myself before going home by imagining what my children might think and do, and then I could easily calm them. 


Nowadays, parents lack patience and just do everything their children ask and act accordingly, which leads to increased stubbornness, which becomes tough for parents to handle in the long run, and not managing their stubbornness in later life leads to mental health concerns. At every stage of life, balancing thoughts and reacting to thoughts is critical. We may lose loved ones as a result of quick reactions. The vicious circle continues. As with all opposites in language, forgetting and forgiving are equally crucial in balancing all relationships. Your actions toward your clients and their reactions to you help to balance the customer-client relationship. We recently advised one of our clients who had difficulty hearing and speaking to get good hearing aids to balance her voice, and she said she got her voice back. She recently sent us a special prepared sheera, saying that sheera was just awesome and it was to add positive energy to our work.


We've seen individuals who lose their hearing abilities are more likely to have mental health problems. It has a detrimental impact on everyday and social activities, as well as your overall emotional state, and can have a big impact on how you connect with others and experience life.
Nonetheless, instrumental support has a favorable impact on negative emotional states like anxiety, depression, and stress because, regardless of the degree of hearing loss, greater amounts of social support can lower levels of anxiety, melancholy, and stress. We recently fitted hearing aids to an 86-year-old lady who has a strong trust in God. She has been a client of ours for many years and has been wearing hearing aids for nearly 20 years. She prefers the best digital hearing aids so that she can get very good feedback on her own voice and sing better. This time, she stated, "I want good hearing aids so that I can hear my voice and even God can hear my songs well and I can also listen to him." What inspired you to discover how to balance the relationship between God and his devotees?


Life requires balance at every stage. Words like good and bad, up and down, fall and grow, negative and positive, and many more opposites are used, but I'd contend that we've had enough of the negative; let's move on to the positive. By spreading smiles, we'll make our lives beautiful and well-balanced so that we can enjoy each and every moment.



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