|| Be Happy To Keep Up With Life ||

|| Be Happy To Keep Up With Life ||

Many people will give us advice, such as "Be happy in whatever you do," "Be happy with whatever you have," or "Be glad you are alive." Other phrases like "Be happy I'm here talking to you" are also common. But I'm simply wondering, how many of us actually sit down and try to implement this in our hectic lives? One needs to make time to learn how to be happy in order to continue living, especially given how stressed out people are nowadays, how much more communication is required, and how much smaller the world has gotten thanks to technology. If you only observe nature, the waves will come to the coast, play on it while they are there, and then they will go back. Butterflies fly like travelling from one bloom to the next and returning after taking their fragrance. Birds fly to find food and shelter, then return to their nests to rest whenever they choose to appreciate those moments. Over the years, all of nature's natural processes have taken place without being influenced by any external factors. It's only a coincidence that it only disappeared at a certain level and will vanish if people utilize their brains more intelligently and scientifically to create revolution. Imagine that nature and natural things are not lacking in happiness; it is we people who are lacking in happy moments in order to keep up with life.

Radhaji was very close to Lord Krishna, as was Arjun. But Rukmini who was also close to Lord Krishna who was always thinking that why Radhaji is more close than her? Karna and other Pandavas were also close to Krishna, but others always knew that Arjuna was more close to him.  Rukmini was unable to experience happiness as fully as Radhaji did when sharing life with Lord Krishna, and Arjuna had better opportunities to learn from him than anybody else. The reason one can't fully appreciate life's wonderful moments is because we are constantly thinking about, comparing ourselves to, and valuing others over ourselves. We are also not enthusiastic about loving or learning from others. Sometimes, we act in particular ways merely to get attention, to show others, or for no other reason than that we don't really mean it, and in the process, we miss out on some very incredible moments.

I recently met parents who had a normal kid who is now 35 years old, has slight stammering, but is coping quite well in terms of her professional commitments. She has accomplished everything in life and is highly independent enough to handle herself in the United States. Whenever her parents visit the United States, she makes it a point to go with them, prepares all of their activities, and ensures that her parents are well taken care of. Just  imagine nature and natural things are not missing to be happy, it's we humans who are missing happy moments to keep with life. But see the mental processes of parents. Despite the fact that everything is going well, parents believe that their daughter has stammering issues as a result of their blunders. She takes care of her expenses, or she takes precautions in whatever she does, or many other things, but for now, it is simply a matter of appreciation for the amazing parenting they have done. Though she has challenges, she is ready to overcome them so sportingly. You cannot control anyone's thinking at the age of 35. You, as a parent, should leave your children alone when they grow up. They know how to manage themselves. Now just enjoy the moments of your balanced life. Instead of overthinking, you enjoy the wonderful parts of life.

I enjoy how, if you read Lord Krishna's tales, he skillfully taught his entire Vrijwasis how to be joyful and keep up with life. He spread love and smiles in such a lovely way with his Bansuri melodies that instead of comparing themselves to other Vrijvasis, they used to think about how to approach Lord Krishna. He did things like breaking the matkis in search of Makhan, playing with govals, going to gaze at cows, chatting with cows, and hiding in the bush so that Vrijwasi would search for him, rushing to snatch Makhan, and many other things. All of these naughty things were done with love and affection, which prevented Vrijwasi people from comparing them. They were doing their best to support their families at the time by engaging in this naughty behavior as well. Simply pay attention to this paragraph once more and consider what we are doing now.

We begin by gradually losing faith in God while also losing faith in and trust in others we previously loved. We take our time analyzing others. We invest time in considering how we may reconcile with others using resources like money, prestige, and social media presence. Nowadays, we spend the majority of our time using technology, googling, and rationalizing unnecessary things. I recently visited a salon, where two ladies who were close friends came came for their hair massage. They were chatting instead of finding joy in the massage. I also met a women recently who said that washing one's hair at a salon and then drying it with a dryer is dangerous and destroys skin cells. She also mentioned that in today's society, we must be cautious of several chemicals and other factors. What is wrong with today's mentality of focusing more on what is wrong than on what is right? We lose small, precious life moments that might make our souls joyful when we analyze and talk about them.

We are planning an event through the Josh Foundation on Saturday, January 28, from 4 to 7 p.m. We have received 15 entries from various Deaf schools, and over 200 children will perform on stage. The concept that has been given to them is "Aazadi Ka Amrit Mahotsav," and they have been practicing for it for the past two months. Recently, I was at the annual event of one of the two deaf schools when a teacher excitedly told me that all of the teachers and their deaf students were prepared to participate in the Josh event. They also said that they had thought of a unique idea, and we would try their best. I was elated to witness the teachers' passion as they worked beautifully with the deaf children, and I know the kids would benefit greatly from the teachers' enthusiasm as well. Salute to the deaf students and teachers who work tirelessly to establish their happiness.

We have provided digital hearing aids to about 250 children in those two deaf schools since the annual function began, and every single one of them is doing incredibly well. Since they have paid attention to each person's individual requirements, the majority of them speak nearly normally. One of those children, who was around 10 years old, approached me, and I told her, "You speak very well, and I'm so proud of you." She was so excited, she immediately ran to her mother and told her, "Mom Mam said I spoke very well." She then returned with her mother's phone and asked me to take a selfie with her. The way she smiled was just one of those incredible life moments, and I felt blessed. Like this, there are several occasions in our lives that help us maintain our energy, but we fail to realize them. My deaf children, who continually motivate me, have inspired me.

To care for your children by cooking for them, working for them, spending time with them, and playing with them; to be with your loved ones and feel their warmth; spending some time on yourself, encouraging others, dancing and enjoying music, and being with family or for the community or nation are only a few lovely moments that can make you feel glad every day. These are the small things that will keep you going. Just learn to be happy with your positive attitude. Our resolution for this year and the coming years ought to be to keep and spread happiness and positivity. Happy New Year!