Our Only Security Is Our Ability to Change.....

 

Our Only Security Is Our Ability to Change....

Being in this universe, the most secure place is the Earth where you exist, you are alive. As long as you exist on this Earth, you are secure in many ways, yet you continue searching for security all the time. You seek security for air, water, food and shelter. To have all these, you need security from your environment, your country, your community, your family, and ultimately from your own body, mind and soul. When we talk about security as a profession, we think of the people who protect our country, our buildings, our property and, at times, individuals. But even this profession demands courage, discipline and the willingness to take action. Security is important at every stage of life, security from parents, family, education, community and country. The more secure we feel, the more confidently we grow.

Though we may be powerful, intelligent and mentally strong, our hearts still long for security. Many of the unfortunate incidents happening around the world today are rooted in insecurity. Human beings have learnt the science of security to build aircraft, run superfast trains and create magnificent engineering marvels. Yet somehow, insecurity has become a part of our relationships. We struggle to learn from one another, support one another and trust one another. Kindness slowly disappears wherever insecurity begins to grow.

When Lord Krishna was with the people of Vraj, whether the gopas, gopis, animals, birds or nature itself, they all experienced a deep sense of security because they believed Krishna was always with them. Even when Lord Indra became angry and brought torrential rains, Lord Krishna protected everyone by lifting Govardhan Parvat on His little finger. That single act became a symbol of complete faith and security. Thousands of years after Lord Krishna's birth, God still exists, yet somewhere along the way many of us have begun to lose our faith, and perhaps that has made us feel more insecure.

Recently, we have been hearing many stories about insecurity, especially among youngsters. They often feel insecure in relationships, while talking to their parents, their families, their friends and sometimes even with themselves. The recent Pune incident has raised countless questions and opinions. Did that girl ever imagine the consequences? Was she constantly living with insecurity? Did she lack emotional security in her relationships, within her family, or somewhere much deeper? We may never know the complete truth, but every such incident reminds us how important emotional security is in a person's life.

Research says that when you focus on the good in your life, your brain literally rewires itself to look for more good. This is the beautiful power of neuroplasticity. Unfortunately, in today's fast-paced world, social media algorithms constantly promote negativity, crime, jealousy and fear. Young minds are repeatedly exposed to these emotions, and over time, insecurity also becomes deeply wired into their thinking. No matter how much we try to change the outcome later, the damage often begins much earlier.

The insecurity experienced by parents, families, communities and even countries is reflected in social media, films and OTT platforms, influencing young minds every day. As parents, we must remain aware and consciously create an environment where our children feel secure from birth. Education should help them analyse what is right and what is wrong. They should have the freedom to express what they like, what they dislike and what they truly feel. Above all, they should learn to believe in values and have faith in God. The belief that there is someone greater than us who watches over our actions can become a powerful source of inner security.

I was discussing with someone that the seeds of security need to be planted in children from birth itself. If we want meaningful change, we must begin at the foundation in every sector of society. Let children grow in a healthy environment. Teach them to plant trees, recycle waste, conserve water, respect food and protect nature. Encourage healthy eating, physical fitness, mental well-being and inner peace. Let them enjoy education along with activities that bring them happiness. This kind of security, nurtured from the beginning, can truly bring lasting change.

I once heard a story about an artist whose paintings looked so alive that people felt the characters could speak. Other artists tried hard to match her work but could never recreate the same magic. When someone finally asked her secret, she smiled and said, "A painting may not be perfect, but the emotions you create through it must be perfect." That thought stayed with me. Emotions play a very important role in our lives. A true sense of security is built through genuine emotions, love, trust and faith. When people feel emotionally secure, they naturally move towards kindness, compassion and positive change. Think about it.