Positive human connections…

 

Positive human connection...

We often hear that soul-to-soul connections are the purest form of human bonding in this universe. But in today’s world of rat races, scientific revolutions, artificial intelligence, robots in the making, and fast-paced relationships, even imagining such deep connections feels difficult. Yet, I believe that if we truly observe, positive human connections still exist and quietly work around us. These connections are reflected in simple moments, sharing a smile, laughter, kindness, and humility; spreading happiness with family and friends; or taking out a few moments to listen to someone in need. Sadly, in this fast-moving world, such moments rarely happen unless conscious effort is made. Though social media and digital communication have brought us closer through messages and information, what we often miss is warmth. Every positive human connection rooted in love and warmth creates a powerful and lasting impact.

Recently, I met a lady who came to see me through one of my close friends. She lives alone, confidently and gracefully, and is 91 years old, as I was told. At this age, she had fought breast cancer and continues to live a beautiful, energetic life. She had been experiencing hearing difficulty for the past few years but was waiting for her daughter, who lives abroad, to join her for the testing procedures. Even before meeting her, I felt a strong sense of positivity about her. When I finally met her, she did not look 91 at all not even 75. She was full of energy with a pleasant personality. After the hearing assessment, we found a 50% hearing loss, and once hearing aids were fitted according to her needs, the smile on her face was priceless. It felt as though she had regained a part of her life.

While talking to her, I learned that she loves writing and narrating poems. The moment she began hearing better, all her poetic emotions flowed effortlessly. She shared, “I have been positive throughout my life. I feel God is always with me.” Her faith had inspired her to write many poems. Though she lives alone, she never feels lonely, as reading books and writing poetry are her closest companions. Wherever she goes, she carries her pen and paper, ready to write. She narrated beautiful poems filled with positivity, and within minutes, she made us feel as though we had known her for years. Such positive human connections generate immense energy. Even when your mind is crowded with thoughts, they bring clarity. A connection rooted in positivity always shows a clearer, brighter path.

Lord Krishna, who was deeply connected to his parents, offers a profound example of positive human connections. Though he was almighty, he knew he would spend only a few years with his parents before moving on to fight evil forces. His parents had vowed that if blessed with a child by God, they would go on pilgrimages to temples across India. Knowing this would separate him from them for long periods, Krishna used his divine power to request all gods and goddesses to reside near his native place. This allowed his parents to fulfill their prayers while remaining close to him. Even divinity acknowledges that positive human connections are essential in every relationship. Yet today, we often rely on shortcuts, expressing love and warmth only through social media.

Social media has also created significant disruption, amplifying negativity such as violence, crime, unrealistic societal expectations, and a gradual loss of faith in God and in one another. When I see hearing-impaired children listening for the first time, I realize how deeply humans crave connection through sound and communication. And yet, here we are, emotionally distancing ourselves from one another. I recall a friend who visited with her parents to address hearing issues, along with her mother-in-law. After their hearing improved, we all sat together, sharing life experiences filled with color and wisdom. That conversation radiated positivity and warmth, reminding us of the beauty of human bonding.

While discussing my articles on positivity, one of the elderly women suddenly said, “I need some positivity.” I responded, “You are so energetic and healthy, why do you feel the need for more positivity?” She gently replied that she only worried about her husband’s health and wondered how they would manage if something happened. In that moment, I saw the deep warmth and understanding they shared. They could not bear to see each other in pain. Their fear existed, but it was filled with love and hope. She then added, “We have spent so many years together, faced many challenges, and we have always come through. We will pass through whatever comes in the future as well.” I was truly amazed to witness fear surrounded by such profound positivity.

Sometimes, while building human connections, we forget that every individual carries a unique perspective on life. What feels like fear to one may be easy for another to overcome. For some, forgiveness comes naturally; for others, forgetting pain caused by a loved one is difficult. Some priorities money, while others value relationships above everything else. Life holds potential in every connection, it all depends on how we choose to see and perceive it. The strongest and most positive human relationships thrive when we remain humble, listen with openness, and genuinely try to understand another person’s perspective.

Positive human connections are not about perfection or the absence of fear; they are about presence, empathy, and intention. In a world moving faster than emotions can keep up with, choosing to pause, listen, and connect with warmth becomes a conscious act of kindness. When we nurture relationships with understanding and positivity, we not only uplift others but also heal parts of ourselves. True human connection, rooted in compassion and faith, continues to be one of the most powerful forces shaping a meaningful and hopeful life.