|| TRUST THE PROCESS ||

Trust is the glue of life. It's the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It's the foundation principle that holds all relationships. A good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction, not a destination. If you analyze both the statements then it reflects that life is a process where with trust you can build a foundation of effective communication and with the right direction can develop effective relationships with the world around you. Take a simple example of day-to-day life...you have curd in your food every day. You can't just pour milk into your plate and magically it turns into curd??? To form the curd you need to warm the milk, add a little ingredient, keep it the whole night and wait until it is converted into curd, which is a slow process. Here, how good curd you make depends on how well you do the process. Similarly, water comes from mountains, gets into streams then meets rivers and lakes, and then meets the sea and becomes an ocean. Again, it's a process to flow from the mountains with slow water currents and reach the level of the ocean. Similarly, we as an individual if want to make a change then we have to put in a lot of hard work, small efforts and trust the process. Just believe that one day it will become a huge ocean.

Lord Rama had to go through 14 years of difficulties and be away from home and had to value dharma he also needed to put Sitaji his wife in such a difficult process of sacrifice though he was Lord Rama. Lord Krishna had to be away from his parents who gave him birth and had to be away from his hometown and his love Radha. Though he was Lord Krishna he did narrate through his life lessons that we all need to go through the process of life of human beings. We do come across ups and downs of life but we need to believe and trust the process. And go in the right direction so that we win and keep following the right dharma.  Lord Rama and Lord Krishna in Ramayana and Mahabharata also made us understand that if you trust the process of life you not only achieve the best in your own life, you can also do your best to help others in life.

In today’s fast-paced world we want everything fast and we want everything with magic that doesn't happen. Even if you are looking for magic you need to trust the process of magic. Magic does happen when Krishna was above to play Raas with all the Gopis who used to love Lord Krishna wanted to play with him and were waiting just because they had faith in Krishna and just to make Gopis believe in their faith he took multiple Swaroop and made everyone feel that he was with them. Today in a fast-paced show-off and scientific revolutionary life, we have kept faith far away and we are also occupied with a lot of thoughts of insecurity, competition, and jealousy that we have time to believe in our faith. Can we wait and trust the process to have a faith in our God who has made beautiful creations like us? 

We meet so many deaf kids, parents, those who are educated do a lot of research, and look for solutions where you get faster results. Nowadays with little hearing also you can have hearing aids or cochlear implants to individual requirements and can have near-normal hearing. Now here to go for hearing aids or cochlear implants also there is a process. we need to decide which candidate needs hearing aids and who needs a cochlear implant. But some parents don’t try to understand just because one achieves good results with surgery so we have money so we also need to do that. Here even normal kids don’t start speaking immediately after birth they also speak after 9 to 10 months as their brain has to go process of listening and understanding and then expressing. So whether you go for hearing aids or cochlear implants you need to go through the process of hearing, listening, understanding then expressing. No magic happens with spending a lot of money and surgery to work with deaf kids and make them overcome their challenges you need sincerity, as it’s rightly said ''sincerity is an asset beyond computation." Similarly to achieve the best process in life with trust we need sincerity as well.

My learning from my life I will share with you all. I have got good people in my life who always inspire me to be a better human being. My faith in Lord Krishna and my parent's blessings and the support of my family and good friends are my moral support. Working with a deaf kid has become the passion of my life, which everyone knows. As an individual who has decided to make a change for them, I trust my process and work hard and put my best. I will tell you magical things that happened in my life through my sincerity towards this. Two years back on 28th  September on World Deaf Day, it was Ashtami of Navratri and one of the pandals of Mataji had invited all the deaf kids for maha aarti. Some of the big celebrities were invited to do aarti with deaf kids. My work was to organize to take them to pandal and be with them. That day almost six celebrities were to come to do aarti, but they couldn’t make it for some reason. I was so lucky that I got the opportunity to do maha aarti with 100 deaf kids. isn’t it magic??? My confidence has increased and I trust the process and believe that one day I will do make a change for them and will achieve "Hearing disability no more disability.” 

To trust the process of our own lives we all need to be confident about ourselves. How about being confident like a pressure cooker even you are under pressure keep whistling. Again to make dal or rice or many food ingredients you need to use the pressure cooker and a certain process needs to be followed. Many times you find difficulties like I found to explain that how hearing disability not seen is so neglected. One must see how much hearing is rather than how much hearing loss. How technology and early intervention can make a revolution?? Every deaf child can achieve a normal life. Quality of hearing is important than the quantity of hearing aids given by non-profit organizations. Time was there when they were not ready to work as they were not understanding the importance of hearing but now slowly change is happening. Many organizations have come forward to help them in the right way. Like me, you all should learn to trust the process.

Another process is spreading positivity and learning working with specially challenged people has made my world beautiful around me. I just have started flowing with positivity I know stream, river, lake, sea, and then an ocean of positivity will happen. I have faith and I just trust the process. How about you all? I am ready to face the challenges coming on my way. I have started in a direction to spread positivity I may not have speed but I know my trust towards the process will get me good relations and will make me do effective communication with the world around me.

We all need to know grapes must be crushed to make wine, diamonds are made under pressure, olives are pressed to release the oil, seeds grow in darkness in life whenever you feel crushed, under pressure, pressed or in the darkness, you are at that time in a powerful place of transformation… just TRUST THE PROCESS.